I find it hard to make conversation with girls. I know they're just humans, but I struggle.
I can make friends with guys pretty easily, but girls I struggle. I just feel it never seems to flow. With guys it's joking back and forth, but I can't get that sort of rapport with girls. Even when I do joke, they can laugh, but when I run out of jokes or can't think of one, it gets awkward. And conversation never seems to be equal two ways, feels like I'm talking more and she's listening or she's talking more and I'm listening. The conversations aren't fluid. And often the conversation becomes really awkward.
I'd love to have more female friends. I try my best, I just can't seem to make friends with them. I'm kind, have lots of interests, I try to engage myself, but it just doesn't happen.
I dunno what I'm doing wrong. The only time it feels like a girl takes interest in talking to me is if she's attracted to me. In some ways it makes it really easy to tell if a girl is attracted to me, because if she isn't, she's probably not giving me the time of day. Heck, I think my skills socialising with girls are almost better if I don't open my mouth, it's always seems downhill from there when I talk :(. I mean my previous girlfriends (and some other girls for some reason) have probably spent more time stroking my hair than actually talking to me. Which is kind of social, but that reminds me of like petting a dog. It's not exactly prime conversation, nor something that feels particularly deep. I feel I try so hard to try and make conversation and listen, but I get nowhere.
I'm not really worried about girlfriends and stuff, I'm ok with that, I'd just to like to make friends and not feel so damn awkward around 50% of the population. I'd just like to make some damn friends with them.
What do I do?
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