Ok, so I met a charming and funny guy at a friend's party over the weekend. He'd clearly been in the bourbon for a while, but he was a happy and non-irritating sort of wants-to-dance-but-isn't-inappropriate-about-it drunk. He asked for my number, which I gave him, and I got his in return.
The next morning it occurred to me that I've never given my number to a guy before. In fact, I'm fairly certain I'd never been seriously asked for it. Until my divorce last year, I'd been in a relationship with the same man since I was 15! I've never even been out on a date with a guy who wasn't already my boyfriend. :o
At any rate, he did call the next morning. He was seriously apologetic about his level of inebriation. We chatted for probably 20 minutes, and he asked if it would be okay if he called me again some time. I told him I'd like that.
So, I have zero experience here. Am I supposed to call/text him to signal that I return his interest? I just don't know how this works, real world. Yes, it's fine if I never hear from him again. But I don't want to not hear from him just because I was supposed to do something here and didn't.
And, yes, I do realize how much like a naïve tween I sound. Sorry. :slap:
The next morning it occurred to me that I've never given my number to a guy before. In fact, I'm fairly certain I'd never been seriously asked for it. Until my divorce last year, I'd been in a relationship with the same man since I was 15! I've never even been out on a date with a guy who wasn't already my boyfriend. :o
At any rate, he did call the next morning. He was seriously apologetic about his level of inebriation. We chatted for probably 20 minutes, and he asked if it would be okay if he called me again some time. I told him I'd like that.
So, I have zero experience here. Am I supposed to call/text him to signal that I return his interest? I just don't know how this works, real world. Yes, it's fine if I never hear from him again. But I don't want to not hear from him just because I was supposed to do something here and didn't.
And, yes, I do realize how much like a naïve tween I sound. Sorry. :slap:
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