My wife works a straight evening shift, she gets home about midnight on the days she works. She stays up to 1-2 in the morning because she says she can't go to bed right after she gets home because she is still wound up from her shift. This part I can understand, I have worked evenings before and it was hard for me to go right to bed to when I got home. My wife and I share the same Kindle Fire to do our Internet surfing. My wife was still in bed the next morning so I decided to get on the Kindle and do a little surfimg. Something told me to check the history so I did and guess what. Im really not a computer guy, but I saw that my wife had been on Facebook and I saw a name in the history that I didn't know and that she was trying to confirm hie phone number. I don't know this guy, have never even heard of him. So, I got on Facebook to check him out. He lives In a State that is a long way from where we live. i know they couldn't be having
affair because it is so far away. So, the next morning I causally mentioned that I saw something this guy posted on my time line. I mentioned the guys name and her exchanges mentioned immediately. mentioned this guy's name to her and her expression changed immediately. After this, I said " I've never
heard of him, do you know him ?" She immediately got very defensive and said "No, I said I didn't know him !" So, I dropped the subject. So, I get up this morning and my wife is on the couch asleep. She woke up for a minute and I said "I'm sorry, did I wake you ?" She said "no, I didn't sleep good last night so I came in here." I said "Ok, I'm sorry if I woke you." She went back to sleep. Anyway, I know this is a long post and I apologize. So this morning I decided to get on the Kindle again and surfed a little, then decided to surf a little while. Then, I went to history again and saw that she had been on FB a few times, no big deal, then I scrolled further down and noticed this guys name and the fact that she was trying to confirm his phone number had been deleted. She has a very private FB page, her settings are where no one but friends can see and post anything to it, so I begin wondering why she attempted to confirm this guys phone number and why she deleted it. It coul d be something totally innocent, I know that, they could have been chatting, I know that too. But why did she get so uneasy when I mentioned the guys name and why did delete his name from the history ? I want to make it perfectly clear that I do not spy on my wife in any way. I respect her privacy. But, this has honestly got me thinking what she's up too if anything. Could the reason be that she did get defensive because she was afraid to tell me that she was chatting with this guy and didn't know how I would react ? I just don't know. Does anyone have any ideas ?
affair because it is so far away. So, the next morning I causally mentioned that I saw something this guy posted on my time line. I mentioned the guys name and her exchanges mentioned immediately. mentioned this guy's name to her and her expression changed immediately. After this, I said " I've never
heard of him, do you know him ?" She immediately got very defensive and said "No, I said I didn't know him !" So, I dropped the subject. So, I get up this morning and my wife is on the couch asleep. She woke up for a minute and I said "I'm sorry, did I wake you ?" She said "no, I didn't sleep good last night so I came in here." I said "Ok, I'm sorry if I woke you." She went back to sleep. Anyway, I know this is a long post and I apologize. So this morning I decided to get on the Kindle again and surfed a little, then decided to surf a little while. Then, I went to history again and saw that she had been on FB a few times, no big deal, then I scrolled further down and noticed this guys name and the fact that she was trying to confirm his phone number had been deleted. She has a very private FB page, her settings are where no one but friends can see and post anything to it, so I begin wondering why she attempted to confirm this guys phone number and why she deleted it. It coul d be something totally innocent, I know that, they could have been chatting, I know that too. But why did she get so uneasy when I mentioned the guys name and why did delete his name from the history ? I want to make it perfectly clear that I do not spy on my wife in any way. I respect her privacy. But, this has honestly got me thinking what she's up too if anything. Could the reason be that she did get defensive because she was afraid to tell me that she was chatting with this guy and didn't know how I would react ? I just don't know. Does anyone have any ideas ?
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