Why would a man act differently around certain environments?
My H and I like to go dancing. It's one of the interests we have most in common. We go to different bars that have the kind of music we like or band we like. Usually once a week - Friday night.
He acts differently in this atmosphere than he does any other time. He MUST be center of attention. But, it's out of control now to where I don't want to go dancing anymore with him. He shows more attention to everyone else rather than me and will even make jokes at my expense to get laughs. He doesn't do this or act this way any other time. So, why would he act so different in that type of environment?
This is something that changed once we got married. Actually, I'm coming to the conclusion that he's played a switch-a-roo on me. There are several things that he's changed since marriage. He didn't act this way when we dated. Yes, he wanted to be center of attention then, but I wasn't left behind nor did he insult me or hurt my feelings then. Rather he praised me.... made good comments, sweet.
Why would this change? Is it that he's insecure and desperate to gain attention no matter who it hurts? I feel like I give him plenty of attention. I always want to build him up. So, what is the purpose of this? How do you deal with it?
My H and I like to go dancing. It's one of the interests we have most in common. We go to different bars that have the kind of music we like or band we like. Usually once a week - Friday night.
He acts differently in this atmosphere than he does any other time. He MUST be center of attention. But, it's out of control now to where I don't want to go dancing anymore with him. He shows more attention to everyone else rather than me and will even make jokes at my expense to get laughs. He doesn't do this or act this way any other time. So, why would he act so different in that type of environment?
This is something that changed once we got married. Actually, I'm coming to the conclusion that he's played a switch-a-roo on me. There are several things that he's changed since marriage. He didn't act this way when we dated. Yes, he wanted to be center of attention then, but I wasn't left behind nor did he insult me or hurt my feelings then. Rather he praised me.... made good comments, sweet.
Why would this change? Is it that he's insecure and desperate to gain attention no matter who it hurts? I feel like I give him plenty of attention. I always want to build him up. So, what is the purpose of this? How do you deal with it?
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