I would really like a point of view from both men and women on this. But first let me explain our history and the situation.
We got married when I was 20, my wife was 18. We have now been married almost 10 years and together 12. We have 3 kids, 7,6, and 1. We have had our ups and downs but for the most part have a very strong relationship, friend ship, and I think a decent sex life. My wife has always told me I should have a one night stand because I've really only been with her (except for the girl I lost my virginty to at 13) she has had more partners than I and always talked about how sex can just be sex, which I don't really understand.
Over the past few days it has come up and become very clear that the idea of having 1 night stands excites my wife. She seems to wish that she could have got to experience that, but because we married so young she missed that part of her 20s. We spent last weekend in Vegas where she got mad at me for not trying to bring a girl home for a 3some. She told me I was being boring. Our friend had 2 one night stands while we were there and she thought it was awesome.
I am not sure how to handle this. I feel mad that the idea of sleeping with someone for a few hours just because they are hot excites her. I feel like I should be the only one she is excited about. I still get butterflies before we have sex because it's exciting to me. Should I be concerned that should some hot guy ever present her the opportunity that she will act on it? Am I over reacting And this is natural to be curious about 1 night stands?
We got married when I was 20, my wife was 18. We have now been married almost 10 years and together 12. We have 3 kids, 7,6, and 1. We have had our ups and downs but for the most part have a very strong relationship, friend ship, and I think a decent sex life. My wife has always told me I should have a one night stand because I've really only been with her (except for the girl I lost my virginty to at 13) she has had more partners than I and always talked about how sex can just be sex, which I don't really understand.
Over the past few days it has come up and become very clear that the idea of having 1 night stands excites my wife. She seems to wish that she could have got to experience that, but because we married so young she missed that part of her 20s. We spent last weekend in Vegas where she got mad at me for not trying to bring a girl home for a 3some. She told me I was being boring. Our friend had 2 one night stands while we were there and she thought it was awesome.
I am not sure how to handle this. I feel mad that the idea of sleeping with someone for a few hours just because they are hot excites her. I feel like I should be the only one she is excited about. I still get butterflies before we have sex because it's exciting to me. Should I be concerned that should some hot guy ever present her the opportunity that she will act on it? Am I over reacting And this is natural to be curious about 1 night stands?
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