Hi,
Please go easy on me, I've got myself into a bit of a mess of a relationship and know I sound stupid. I'll try to be brief.
-Met at the start of the year, he came on very strong suggesting holidaying together and introducing me to family and friends within the first month, but shied away from any conversations about where it was going.
-Found out he'd been messaging different women and sexting etc. So I ended it and he said it was an 'epiphany' that no woman had called him out like I had and he's been trying to change but just by avoiding some of the women he'd spoke to.
-Now I'm moving home and he wants to move in with me but I don't trust him. He told me he's still messaging some of the women he used to flirt with but cut the others off because he doesn't trust the temptation. Surely if you're committed to someone this wouldn't be a huge temptation?
My main issues are trust and his lies. He lied about following a young colleague on Twitter and said he done that to prevent an argument when I don't care about him adding women, but if you lie about it that seems suss. I also don't think he's over an ex from 2009 as his passwords are in her name and he gets very wound up talking about her, but said yesterday every minute of the relationship was fantastic. Apparently he slept with her just before she was getting married in 2012, too, and I know he searches for her on Facebook sometimes.
He's also slept with a lot of women via nights out, sisters friend's and social network sites, and used the same lines on them that he said to me at the start. But now he tells me he loves me and only realised when he thought he'd lose me.
I just don't know what to do. I've not been in many relationships and am used to dysfunction. All my friends have warned me off him but I'm torn and posting on here because I've driven them mental!
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