I was reading Scrambled Egg's post and it got me wondering what I would have done differently had I a better understanding of betraying.
In retrospect I think rather than any snooping I would have just filed for divorce at the first knowledge, with or without verification, left ir kicked her out and then let it play out- up or down.
No big drama. No big scenes. Just start the process to end the bleeding and see how it went. She could protest her innocence and lie and manipulate all she wanted, but just let it slide. If she really and truly wanted to R, then she can fully prove it to me without me making any demands what so ever. All up to her. If it was the true desire of her heart, then it may have worked.
But I can't believe the energy I put into making things better just to be continually kicked in the head.
What would you have done differently?
In retrospect I think rather than any snooping I would have just filed for divorce at the first knowledge, with or without verification, left ir kicked her out and then let it play out- up or down.
No big drama. No big scenes. Just start the process to end the bleeding and see how it went. She could protest her innocence and lie and manipulate all she wanted, but just let it slide. If she really and truly wanted to R, then she can fully prove it to me without me making any demands what so ever. All up to her. If it was the true desire of her heart, then it may have worked.
But I can't believe the energy I put into making things better just to be continually kicked in the head.
What would you have done differently?
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