Was conversing with a mutual friend of former ex cheating fiancée recently. She related a talk she had with ex fiancée. Apparently exfiancee talked at one point about her she had felt she lost control of rational thought during her cheating. She was worked on by a coworker labelled as a player. Worked from EA to a physical encounter.
She said (paraphrasing, from our mutual friend) that she knew what was doing was wrong, but felt so strongly excited that it altered her "normal" thinking which made it easier to cheat.
I cannot buy the fog talk. I dislike even reading posts about it. I cannot come to accept that this force of the cheating was so powerful that she couldn't control herself, and the lies and the betrayal. I've come to look at the fog talk as more of an excuse than anything else. I understand the thrill or rush people get from the secrecy. I can get that. But I cannot buy the fog as such a powerful thing that I e seen here.
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She said (paraphrasing, from our mutual friend) that she knew what was doing was wrong, but felt so strongly excited that it altered her "normal" thinking which made it easier to cheat.
I cannot buy the fog talk. I dislike even reading posts about it. I cannot come to accept that this force of the cheating was so powerful that she couldn't control herself, and the lies and the betrayal. I've come to look at the fog talk as more of an excuse than anything else. I understand the thrill or rush people get from the secrecy. I can get that. But I cannot buy the fog as such a powerful thing that I e seen here.
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