Sometime ago in my marriage, H and I stayed at a motel when visiting my sister. H loves to spend a lot of time sitting outside with his phone. So sometimes I do sit outside with him, only if he wants me to though. Well we were outside and there was a couple in the room next to ours. They were being intimate and you could hear them, well I did not feel comfortable sitting outside and hearing them go at it, so I suggested to my H that we should go back inside our room because of it.
H said that why should he go back inside, because hearing people having sex is nothing new and as a matter of fact he's used to all that and it doesn't bother him to sit outside and hear them having sex. He said that I could just go in by myself because anyway I act like a prude and that I need to get over it. Well I went back inside but was quite hurt that he seemed to enjoy hearing the woman having sex.
What also bothers me that whenever he hears things like that, he waits to see who the couple is and then speaks to the man and tells him that he heard them having sex and starts to tell the guy that it's alright and laughs it off.
Is this normal for a married man to do? Or is he right that I am being a prude and I just need to get over it.
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