Now I know marriage is not for me. I won't get into detail but just say I've been married 6 years and we have 1 child. My husband quit his jobs ago because he didn't like going there anymore. He said he was miserable. That left me being the only bread winner in our family. it's been really hard maintaining our lifestyle but I seem to be getting by. We had lots of problems before this ranging from cultural and family differences. My mom thinks he keeps me around for my money. He's family thinks I'm ugly and I don't deserve him. They think I'm a bad mother and wife, basically to them everything about me is bad from my clothes to my parenting. When he used to work I earned a little more money than him, but he was doing pretty well as well. The difference was that you can see what I do with my money but his he spends it on himself and helps out around the house when I completely run out of money. He once told me that what he does with his money when he is wit h his family is none of my business. I can deal with all that and him not supporting his child because he expects me to do it. What I have a problem with is the constant criticism from him, from I'm selfish and everything I buy is a selfish buy to I'm filthy and disgusting. He expects me to do everything around the house as well as go to work to support him and our daughter while he sleeps all day and expects a warm cooked meal at the end of the day. I have had enough and i want out of this marriage. I'm not a social person, I like my space and I can't stand the constant visits and family gatherings. I don't do family gatherings with my family. This has made life very difficult for me and all i want is sit back relax and enjoy my space and time with my daughter. Getting married was the worst thing I ever did and now I don't know how to get out without everyone blaming me for giving on such a "wonderful man", if only they knew what an ASS he is.
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