Hi,
I've been in a relationship for over two years with a man I love with all my heart.
I've recently got back in touch with a friend who is a lesbian. She and I have a very flirty relationship and I have an idea that she has feelings for me.
She always compliments me, tells people she fancies me and whenever we're together we hold hands, flirt, talk about sexual things etc.
When we're drinking we get a bit too close and we end up cuddling or texting once we get home. We say that we love each other but, at least in my case, this is just a friendly sentiment.
Thing is, recently I've thought I might be developing some level of attraction towards her. I like the attention she gives me and I like that we hold hands and cuddle etc. I know I'm not a lesbian, I haven't ever been into another woman, its just her. Im not sexually attracted in that i couldnt sleep with her but i would definitely love to kiss her. I cant decide whether these feelings are real or I just enjoy the attention...
Can anyone give me some advice? Its kinda playing on my mind a lot! :( Should I tell her about these feelings/tell my partner?
TL;DR
Flirty with lesbian friend who seems to have feelings for me. Not sure if my feelings are real or I just like the attention. Need advice on what to do!
I've been in a relationship for over two years with a man I love with all my heart.
I've recently got back in touch with a friend who is a lesbian. She and I have a very flirty relationship and I have an idea that she has feelings for me.
She always compliments me, tells people she fancies me and whenever we're together we hold hands, flirt, talk about sexual things etc.
When we're drinking we get a bit too close and we end up cuddling or texting once we get home. We say that we love each other but, at least in my case, this is just a friendly sentiment.
Thing is, recently I've thought I might be developing some level of attraction towards her. I like the attention she gives me and I like that we hold hands and cuddle etc. I know I'm not a lesbian, I haven't ever been into another woman, its just her. Im not sexually attracted in that i couldnt sleep with her but i would definitely love to kiss her. I cant decide whether these feelings are real or I just enjoy the attention...
Can anyone give me some advice? Its kinda playing on my mind a lot! :( Should I tell her about these feelings/tell my partner?
TL;DR
Flirty with lesbian friend who seems to have feelings for me. Not sure if my feelings are real or I just like the attention. Need advice on what to do!
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