Shortly after my husband first told me he loved me, the thought went through my head that he would be a good husband, a good father . . . and a good provider.
I was not trying to analyze him; it just sort of came to me.
He has been the sole provider since our children were born, and sometimes I felt stressed when I did not think he was providing enough.
Looking back 20 years now, I see I should not have worried. I created unnecessary stress on myself, and maybe even a little on him.
How important is money to your marriage? Did your spouse's ability to earn affect your decision to marry? Do you see money differently at this point in your relationship than you used to?
I was not trying to analyze him; it just sort of came to me.
He has been the sole provider since our children were born, and sometimes I felt stressed when I did not think he was providing enough.
Looking back 20 years now, I see I should not have worried. I created unnecessary stress on myself, and maybe even a little on him.
How important is money to your marriage? Did your spouse's ability to earn affect your decision to marry? Do you see money differently at this point in your relationship than you used to?
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