I have a problem. I dated this guy for 8 months and (we were pretty close friends before) but we became best of friends. We had (and still do) have a lot of mutual friends and I go to the same school as him. We lost our virginities to each other and we told each other "I love you." However, our relationship toward the last 1-2 months kind of fell apart. We lost that "spark" and we acted more like friends than boyfriend/girlfriend. I broke up with him about 3 months ago but it was pretty mutual and not messy at all. Recently, we started becoming friends again/talking a lot and most importantly, it was not awkward. Overall, I felt that I moved on from the relationship and no longer thought of him in that way. I have to admit, about a month ago, I hooked up (high school style) with a guy but it didn't mean anything to me and my ex doesn't know about it. However, at our high school dance last weekend, he brought this girl as his date which he barely talks to. (I forgot to make this clear, I am wayyy out of his league and everyone knows it..my ex was wayyy out of the league of HIS date--meaning she was really ugly (sorry!)). At the end of the night, I was them intensely making out and for a long time. All of a sudden, the sadness from my breakup (yes, I was sad but I got over it quickly) came all back and I can't stop thinking about it. I really want it to let go of it but it is so hard. I saw them at school today and it just hurt so much to see them together. I guess I am sad because I know that he has moved on (and I guess I haven't completely). What should I do about it? Should I talk to him? Should I try and stay friends with him? Should I ignore it or confront him? Should I try to get back with him if I feel this way or should I move on? How? One thing I forgot to mention is I feel like I want him badly when I dont have him but I dont want him once he is mine...What should I do? Help!
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