Here is the deal, I married the woman of my dreams when I was 18. She and I have two children, one is 17 and the other is 23. We have had our ups and downs and by no means am I an angel.
We moved to Chicago about 10 years ago from my hometown in Florida. I took a job and promised my wife that I would be the best husband and father that I could be. See, I used to be a bad guy with computers and never had a sense of real responsibility until I moved to the North.
She is from here and she moved to my hometown in Florida when she was 16. As I said we moved here about 10 years ago and like anyone else, I ride the metra train , I work a full time job and do what I have to do to live a normal and productive life.
Last December, I found out by sheer accident that she had been rekindling old times with an old boyfriend and I read all of their messages to and from each other. She had told him that he was the love of her life and she had always been looking for him.
From what I know, she went to meet him at the local coffee shop and it was around that time I had found out about their little relationship. I did what I thought was best and interceded and told them both on Facebook that I am giving them 48 hours to end the relationship. They did. She closed her facebook account and deleted her email.
She promised me that she just wanted to feel pretty and wanted and blah blah , but the thing that gets me is that how can I know she is still being honest? how can I know that she is keeping her word? that they actually ended it?
I mean, they were on facebook talking all kinds of stuff like I cant wait to hold you and this that and the other, but I could never find any proof that there was any sleeping together.
She is a SAHM and I work very long hours providing for her and the kids, but I am not entirely sure they ended it. I mean, it seemed to easy how she just ended it and supposedly cut off communications with this guy.
When I found out, I had promised here she had earned a divorce but this is the woman that I have ever loved. As a matter of fact, I am 42 and it's the only woman that I have ever had sex with.
So, do I just wonder? do I watch what she does or do I just hope for the best and take her word that everything will be ok?
We moved to Chicago about 10 years ago from my hometown in Florida. I took a job and promised my wife that I would be the best husband and father that I could be. See, I used to be a bad guy with computers and never had a sense of real responsibility until I moved to the North.
She is from here and she moved to my hometown in Florida when she was 16. As I said we moved here about 10 years ago and like anyone else, I ride the metra train , I work a full time job and do what I have to do to live a normal and productive life.
Last December, I found out by sheer accident that she had been rekindling old times with an old boyfriend and I read all of their messages to and from each other. She had told him that he was the love of her life and she had always been looking for him.
From what I know, she went to meet him at the local coffee shop and it was around that time I had found out about their little relationship. I did what I thought was best and interceded and told them both on Facebook that I am giving them 48 hours to end the relationship. They did. She closed her facebook account and deleted her email.
She promised me that she just wanted to feel pretty and wanted and blah blah , but the thing that gets me is that how can I know she is still being honest? how can I know that she is keeping her word? that they actually ended it?
I mean, they were on facebook talking all kinds of stuff like I cant wait to hold you and this that and the other, but I could never find any proof that there was any sleeping together.
She is a SAHM and I work very long hours providing for her and the kids, but I am not entirely sure they ended it. I mean, it seemed to easy how she just ended it and supposedly cut off communications with this guy.
When I found out, I had promised here she had earned a divorce but this is the woman that I have ever loved. As a matter of fact, I am 42 and it's the only woman that I have ever had sex with.
So, do I just wonder? do I watch what she does or do I just hope for the best and take her word that everything will be ok?
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