I am currently in a difficult situation, I have 2 girls on my mind who I think I would like as a girlfriend but I am really unsure in my heart as to who I think I actually want a relationship with. I need some advice and opinions on this subject matter. For this post, I am going to call them girl A and girl B.
I am 20 years old (almost 21) and have never been in a relationship before because I have never had the guts/confidence to confess to the person that I actually like them, so this is a really big deal for me as this person would inevitably be my first love. Now that I'm getting old and seeing a lot of friends in relationships, I keep thinking I should stop being such a wimp and go for it and that I need to be in a relationship now otherwise I'm gonna grow old alone.
I am currently studying abroad in China and will return home during July 2014 approximately.
Girl A (22y/o): I met during uni in Manchester, she was a one year exchange student at my uni and graduated at her home university. She is currently studying a masters degree at Bath University for a year and will return home during Jan 2015. We've known each other for a year now. We were reasonably good friends during the time in Manchester and after having a proper conversation with her yesterday via Skype, I've actually realised that she is actually a very, very lovely girl. She doesn't have a boyfriend and she has never been in a relationship before too. She is from China and speaks reasonably fluent English so we automatically have more of a connection cultural and linguistic wise and have similar beliefs (I am ethnically Chinese). If I were to start a relationship with her then I would most likely have to wait until around July till I can physically hug her, hold her hand, kiss her etc (and for another 6 months).
Girl B (24y/o): I met during uni in China in Sep, she is my classmate. She is returning home in late Jan 2014 to continue her university studies. She is Korean and her English isn't very good, so we have to use Mandarin Chinese to communicate. I've only just recently started to spend time with her, although she can be quite quiet, she is a nice girl (similar personality to girl A in some ways). I heard that she currently doesn't have a boyfriend from her friend but obviously I'm going to find that out before I confess to her. If I were to start a relationship with her then I can physically hug her, kiss her for a month or two and she would be there by my side when my birthday comes. She is slightly older than I would prefer (could feel like brother-sister love) but sometimes age doesn't matter too much if I can see through it.
So, in the end it's going to have to be a long-distance relationship anyhow which I doubt will last long.
I'm definitely going to confess to one of them very soon and if that fails then I will go for the next girl but if I do that then it seems to me personally that I don't really like these girls that much as I can easily switch from one to the other therefore I'm not single-minded. So, it feels like I want to go out with either one of them just for the sake of being in a relationship which doesn't sound too great.
I'm feeling so confused! :(
I am 20 years old (almost 21) and have never been in a relationship before because I have never had the guts/confidence to confess to the person that I actually like them, so this is a really big deal for me as this person would inevitably be my first love. Now that I'm getting old and seeing a lot of friends in relationships, I keep thinking I should stop being such a wimp and go for it and that I need to be in a relationship now otherwise I'm gonna grow old alone.
I am currently studying abroad in China and will return home during July 2014 approximately.
Girl A (22y/o): I met during uni in Manchester, she was a one year exchange student at my uni and graduated at her home university. She is currently studying a masters degree at Bath University for a year and will return home during Jan 2015. We've known each other for a year now. We were reasonably good friends during the time in Manchester and after having a proper conversation with her yesterday via Skype, I've actually realised that she is actually a very, very lovely girl. She doesn't have a boyfriend and she has never been in a relationship before too. She is from China and speaks reasonably fluent English so we automatically have more of a connection cultural and linguistic wise and have similar beliefs (I am ethnically Chinese). If I were to start a relationship with her then I would most likely have to wait until around July till I can physically hug her, hold her hand, kiss her etc (and for another 6 months).
Girl B (24y/o): I met during uni in China in Sep, she is my classmate. She is returning home in late Jan 2014 to continue her university studies. She is Korean and her English isn't very good, so we have to use Mandarin Chinese to communicate. I've only just recently started to spend time with her, although she can be quite quiet, she is a nice girl (similar personality to girl A in some ways). I heard that she currently doesn't have a boyfriend from her friend but obviously I'm going to find that out before I confess to her. If I were to start a relationship with her then I can physically hug her, kiss her for a month or two and she would be there by my side when my birthday comes. She is slightly older than I would prefer (could feel like brother-sister love) but sometimes age doesn't matter too much if I can see through it.
So, in the end it's going to have to be a long-distance relationship anyhow which I doubt will last long.
I'm definitely going to confess to one of them very soon and if that fails then I will go for the next girl but if I do that then it seems to me personally that I don't really like these girls that much as I can easily switch from one to the other therefore I'm not single-minded. So, it feels like I want to go out with either one of them just for the sake of being in a relationship which doesn't sound too great.
I'm feeling so confused! :(
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