Hi all. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. We're both at university now, and about a year ago he came out as bisexual. He didn't do much about it until a few months ago, when he joined a gay/bisexual gaming society.
Now, he literally will not talk to anyone except people from this society. He often ignores me, choosing to sit on the computer when I visit his flat to talk to these bisexual/gay men. When I asked him why he joined, he said just to make some new friends to play games online with. I said why couldn't it just be anyone, why did it specifically have to be gay people? His reply was that straight people are 'boring'.
The other day I asked him a strange question. I won't go in to detail but we were talking about someone we knew in high school who now has a kid, and I asked 'if you really liked a girl, but they had a two year old kid, would you still date them?'. His reply was that if he and I broke up, he wouldn't date girls any more. I was a bit confused, so I pushed for answers. His reply was that apparently I am the only girl he finds attractive, and he loves me, and couldn't see himself loving any other woman. I asked what would he do if we did break up then... and he said he would only date men.
I am not homophobic in any way, in case any one is going to say that. My Mum came out as a lesbian when I was in my early teens and her and her new partner lived at home with me and my younger sister until I left for university. I am a straight female myself, so is it something I am missing? :(
Bisexual men/women, can anyone shed any light? I am really worried he is going to leave me to explore some sort of gay side, and I am a little shocked he is so against having straight friends now. Is this normal for people who have just come out? :/
Now, he literally will not talk to anyone except people from this society. He often ignores me, choosing to sit on the computer when I visit his flat to talk to these bisexual/gay men. When I asked him why he joined, he said just to make some new friends to play games online with. I said why couldn't it just be anyone, why did it specifically have to be gay people? His reply was that straight people are 'boring'.
The other day I asked him a strange question. I won't go in to detail but we were talking about someone we knew in high school who now has a kid, and I asked 'if you really liked a girl, but they had a two year old kid, would you still date them?'. His reply was that if he and I broke up, he wouldn't date girls any more. I was a bit confused, so I pushed for answers. His reply was that apparently I am the only girl he finds attractive, and he loves me, and couldn't see himself loving any other woman. I asked what would he do if we did break up then... and he said he would only date men.
I am not homophobic in any way, in case any one is going to say that. My Mum came out as a lesbian when I was in my early teens and her and her new partner lived at home with me and my younger sister until I left for university. I am a straight female myself, so is it something I am missing? :(
Bisexual men/women, can anyone shed any light? I am really worried he is going to leave me to explore some sort of gay side, and I am a little shocked he is so against having straight friends now. Is this normal for people who have just come out? :/
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