Hello all, this is my first post here, my husband and i have been married a little over 5 years. Sex is been a problem off and on in our relationship over the past couple years. I want more passionate sex with some variety, want to feel that connection and comfort level about trying new things. He always seemed fine with the same old same old.
I have tried to talk to him about this in the past, and his responses always left me to believe he was not an adventurous kinda guy. I would say, We are starting to get routine in sex, id really like to change things up a bit, is there anything you would like to try? He would say, we dont always do it the same, we do doggie too. Doggie, is not what i had in mind as changing it up. Ive said Id like him to take control, let me how he wants it. As a man vanilla sex can not be all he desires, and i know it is not all i desire. Every time the topic was brought up, i feel like i got the same response from him.
Recently, we were having a conversation and it came out that he is in fact into other stuff, and has not always had vanilla sex. When I pushed further, he said he is in to dominating me, he wants to be in control. I dont have a lot of sexual experience in this area, so im curious what all this entails, and how to be submissive. He said he isnt in to the hard core stuff, no whips or special devices. When i looked online, domination all looks pretty extreme. Is there toned down domination?
So im looking for some advise info, for men that are into this or women with husbands that like this sort of this. I am so happy and excited to finally be getting somewhere in our sex life, but this is one category i really have no info on.
I have tried to talk to him about this in the past, and his responses always left me to believe he was not an adventurous kinda guy. I would say, We are starting to get routine in sex, id really like to change things up a bit, is there anything you would like to try? He would say, we dont always do it the same, we do doggie too. Doggie, is not what i had in mind as changing it up. Ive said Id like him to take control, let me how he wants it. As a man vanilla sex can not be all he desires, and i know it is not all i desire. Every time the topic was brought up, i feel like i got the same response from him.
Recently, we were having a conversation and it came out that he is in fact into other stuff, and has not always had vanilla sex. When I pushed further, he said he is in to dominating me, he wants to be in control. I dont have a lot of sexual experience in this area, so im curious what all this entails, and how to be submissive. He said he isnt in to the hard core stuff, no whips or special devices. When i looked online, domination all looks pretty extreme. Is there toned down domination?
So im looking for some advise info, for men that are into this or women with husbands that like this sort of this. I am so happy and excited to finally be getting somewhere in our sex life, but this is one category i really have no info on.
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