Hi,
this is my first post here.
I am a WS and I am concerned about that after my disclosure (the affair has been over for a number of months now) my wife may be trying to rug sweep the whole thing.
On the one hand that works out great for me, but that's not what I want. I want to be able fully address all the failings I have, and the issues in my marriage, so that we can move on and I can try and rebuild trust.
I've been open with the questions that she asked but there are more questions where I would uncomfortable with giving the answers, although I will.
In short I want to get all of the disclosure out of the way so there are no perceived surprises later on.
How do I do this in a sensitive way without giving the impression I am rubbing it in?
Secondly, I'm beginning to develop some animosity toward the OW. We have stopped contact but after my confession I am now irked that she's not given her H the full story. My latest knowledge is that her husband was told that we had a close personal relationship. I guess being joined together at stages was close.
How do I handle that?
this is my first post here.
I am a WS and I am concerned about that after my disclosure (the affair has been over for a number of months now) my wife may be trying to rug sweep the whole thing.
On the one hand that works out great for me, but that's not what I want. I want to be able fully address all the failings I have, and the issues in my marriage, so that we can move on and I can try and rebuild trust.
I've been open with the questions that she asked but there are more questions where I would uncomfortable with giving the answers, although I will.
In short I want to get all of the disclosure out of the way so there are no perceived surprises later on.
How do I do this in a sensitive way without giving the impression I am rubbing it in?
Secondly, I'm beginning to develop some animosity toward the OW. We have stopped contact but after my confession I am now irked that she's not given her H the full story. My latest knowledge is that her husband was told that we had a close personal relationship. I guess being joined together at stages was close.
How do I handle that?
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