So I saw something that I think my boyfriend would love for his birthday or Christmas, which was £110. We've been going out for a year and a half, and I wasn't sure if we were quite to the stage of spending that much. So I asked him on fb roughly what our budget is, and he said he tries to spend no more than £30, which is, well.... quite a bit lower than I expected. Last year was his 21st so I spent about £70 on him, and would probably have done the same again this year. The trouble is, it's my 21st in a few weeks and I can't suggest raising the budget without it looking like I'm asking for something bigger, which I'm not.
If I had more money than him,it would be natural for me to spend more, but I'm a student and he works full-time, whilst living at home so I don't know how we've ended up with such different expectations xD Should I just spend less on him this year and not mention it? I worry that if I spend more than him he'll feel bad.
If I had more money than him,it would be natural for me to spend more, but I'm a student and he works full-time, whilst living at home so I don't know how we've ended up with such different expectations xD Should I just spend less on him this year and not mention it? I worry that if I spend more than him he'll feel bad.
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