Hi. This is the first time I've posted anything so here goes. My husband and I have been married for 2 years and together for 9. I recently finished school and got a job at a hospital; which we have to live within 30 minutes of for the days that I am on call; so that means we pretty much have to live in a city. My husband has worked on ranches and with horses his whole life and is recently having trouble finding work because we had to move to the city. We don't have the money to buy/rent a place that we can keep horses on so that he can work and do what he is passionate about. He would really love to live/work on a ranch in the middle of nowhere, which I would be fine with too if I didn't need to work. Anyway, this has been causing a lot of tension and arguing between us. I feel as if I choose between my career and him in order for our marriage to be happy. He feels like it has been all about me for the majority of our relationship; which in a way it has because I was in school working towards my career for pretty much the last 7 years. What should I do? I don't want to lose my husband because I love him very much and I know it can't go on like this much longer.
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