is it too much to ask

i recently caught my husband calling and texting escorts for "massages" he says he didn't sleep with anyone but that is so hard to believe i found 45 different escort numbers in our online phone service bill this is within the course of 1 month. he started this two weeks after i had our second child. we had had sex twice since i have healed so I went and got an STD test yesterday. Every escort didn't respond to his calls or text but he did have conversations with probably 10 of them. I saw 4 texts where he gets the escorts address and then text them "I'm here" or "i will be there"... I wrote out a long statement of the terms i need him to agree to in order for us to start reconciliation process this is what i asked for (he says its too much to ask): i need all your email passwords... your cell phone password...you bank account statements from july-sept OR the bank account password... gps tracker app on your cell phone... both credit card statements need to be paper statements that come to the house OR i need the passwords...he is not allowed to hang out with any of his friends for 3 months because he needs to be with his family... he has to go to counseling with me and we have to begin by November 1st, he found the escorts on the porn sites he was on and saw the link for local girls and clicked on it. I have caught him jerking off a few times but i had no idea he was addicted. so i want him to talk about porn addiction and lies/trust and he has anger issues (knocking stuff off of counters hitting himself.. etc).... i want him to get an STD test... and i told him these are my conditions if he wants me to stay and try to fix this He said im asking wayy too much and he doesnt want to give me any bank or credit card password because if he does i will just leave him anyway so its no point. he said he doesnt need to talk to the counselor about porn addiction because he has been "healed from it" he only wants to go to counseling for his anger because he "isnt addicted to porn"... he doesnt want to take an STD test because he says he didnt have sex with anyone and he "knows" he is clean. he said that since i took a test that will let him know if he has anything... He is instead offering to change and to be the best man he can ever be basically my B**** he said he will keep the gps on his phone he wont give me his email passwords or banking passwords, he will not go out with his friends and he will go to counseling for anger only. he says im bullying him i told him that these were my terms and he keeps talking in circles to me because he doesn't agree. this shows me he isnt willing to work on it but he keeps saying he is changed and he will do whatever he can to make it right... but he just cant do what im asking of him... he has even fixed his mouth to say im a scarred woman and no man wants a scarred woman and to let him heal me.. then he started talking about i didnt show him affection trying to flip it on me...wow anyway is this too much to ask i thought it was rather simple

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