I'm so sad

Sorry if i go on a bit. I'm in a bit of a predicament here. I'm not sure whether to call it day with my long distance girlfriend. We have been together for just under 2 years and i just get the feeling that her ignorance and arrogance is more than meets the eye. A bit of background (I'll try not to go on to much) I met her at a festival 2 years ago. She was at Uni and i was working full time. There is about 100 miles difference between us and neither of us drive. We usually see each other every weekend, but often it is every other weekend. We started out as all couples do, not keeping our hands of each other, going out all the time, we felt like the world was our oyster. However now it just feels a little different Now. Yes the honey moon period is over but I'm still in love with her. she ignores my texts and calls. It seems that I'm only there when she wants me to be. She has now graduated uni, passing out on Friday and I'm supposed to be going to her graduation, but something deep inside me is telling me it wont end well. Oh and because she was at uni and i had a full time job... well lets just say I'm pretty skint. personally I don't think she appreciates me. Ok at uni she was busy i could understand her not calling back for 6 hours or so but now, now that she has practically finished she doesn't even reply to my good morning texts. something else I might mention is that she hates me Lying... when I mean lying, its bending the truth, little white lies (whatever you call them) Such as she wants me to quit smoking so when i see her and she can smell smoke on me "she asks where i got a smoke from" and i say someone from work. She will then find out that I brought some and go hostile on me. Same for a girl (who I'm not allowed to talk to anymore) who used to fancy me. I went to a party and she was there all over me, nothing sexual or even any kiss happened, but my girlfriend found out and it was like world war 3. She has admitted she has trust issues but every time i cross over this tiny little line i have to build it back up. oh and apparently I am the only boyfriend she hasn't cheated on. She gets paranoid when i take my phone to the toilet (I like to play games :D) and she does look through my phone, however I'm not allowed to go through hers. I have an ipad and she has an iphone and i cant seem to get my app store working, so i have her password which also links to her imessages. wouldn't you be a bit conspicuous if you got a text at 3am saying "babe make sure my imessages are turned off on your ipad please" they were not on anyway but when i asked why she said "i talk to my friends in confidence" I am unsure if she is cheating, It would be over if she was but because of the distance i will never know. The same can be said for me, if i was that type of guy i could very easily get away with it but I'm not that guy. I can do it to her because i would feel so guilty after. Its always me that initiates... anything. I try to talk to her about it but then she just says i'm being silly, and then i feel silly. Just now i have messaged her saying i miss her and she replies i know. I just feel that she is playing a game. I'm not sure if i want to break up with her because she is my world, I've had a long relationship before but something about her just feels different. It's like i want to hate her but I cant because I am so in love with her. Well here i am just stating the horrible things about her, but the truth is she is a loving, caring girl and I am so Happy with her but somethings just have to change otherwise I'll continue to be unhappy.

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