Want to talk to my H...need some guys input

Hi all. I'd like to get some guidance from the men as to how to approach H about my desire to work on some things in our marriage. One of the issues is very sensitive so I need to be honest about how I feel and don't want to blow it. One part of the problem is that I just don't view him in a manly way anymore. Obviously this creates a mountain of issues. :( The term "man up" comes to mind. To me, when I think of this term, it means that I think a man needs to step up in his role in the family. Part of that is to become, in a sense, the leader of the family, the provider (I work so don't need/want him to be a sole provider) and the protector. If that makes sense. In the beginning, I feel he was the primary leader, part provider and the protector, and I feel like we have done a role reversal. I know this role reversal works for some, but, it doesn't work for me and I really don't think it works for him either. Any suggestions as to how to turn it back around?

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