lying wife

Hi,i ve been with my wife 26 years, have four kids all over 18 ,i carnt understand what my wife has done,she is on antidepressants,doesn't work and over the last 18 months she has lead a double life of lies to me our children ,she befriended a 20 year old male on fb and started a fb relationship with him and then his friend, who are both on the dole ,they some how got in her head and got her feeling sorry for them and she started giving them money,she has no qualifications as councillor but somehow thought she would help them to get of drugs and get a job,next bought them mobile phones on plans in her name and these boys racked up thousand of dollars in calls over 12 months,the contact growing because of the phone bills,she said they had no money to pay anything of them so she had to pay them,which she paid with our money behind my back ,she has bought one of them a skate board ,cloths ,food alcohol and smokes which run into thousand s of dollar s,she would pick them up a go for drives with them ,mostly at night and tell us she was visiting a girl friend,she said they would just to talk cause she felt sorry for them and says she was trying to help them cause they had nothing ,i knew nothing of this relationship until 4 days ago,when my daughter accidentally opened an over due phone bill addressed to my wife,we got a print out of the calls from these phones and they were ringing her constantly all day looking for money,im not making excuses but i think she got into something way out of her league and didn't no how to get out of if ,iv e worked out she has used $10000 in 6 months on these boys ,i am so hurt by what she has done i don't think i can forgive her ,i don't trust her ,she doesn't think it was an affair but i do , she is now so sorry ,she says she loves me the kids ,all the lies and fighting over the last 12 months have been because of this double life she lead ,what do i do?

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