So am I supposed to say I feel bad and pay for you to go next time?!

Uggh! So DH is all pensive and distant this weekend. He tells me yesterday that the reason why is because the whole house buying thing is stressing him out and he's basically in "f*** it" mode because usually everything ends up blowing up in his face anyways. Oh and on top of that, he wasn't able to go do his track weekend this past weekend that he had been looking forward to for a few months because he had no money. So am I supposed to feel bad and sad for you because of that? Let's backtrack here. YOU are the one who had been going on and on through late last year until this March on how we NEED to buy a house and stop renting. I finally get on board, even though I know you have no money and you haven't been able to pay any of your rent as it is. We get a realtor and a lender and have been looking at houses since April. We finally find one and are near closing with it and NOW you are telling me how stressed out you are about it and maybe it wasn't such a good idea?! Why does it ALWAYS come down to this? Every time he is beyond gung ho about doing something and I hear again and again about how great it's going to be, but when it gets down to crunch time all of a sudden it's a bad decision? He got me all hyped up about going to Vegas for months for a business trip where I would be able to go with him but with only a couple weeks to go until the trip he backs out of his position. Good thing I hadn't bought my ticket yet! Tells me how he's going to ma x out in pay next May (going to make a $13 jump to $36/hr) and how we'll be on easy street then. What do you wanna bet he'll quit his job right before then for whatever reason. I just assume because he is hyping it up so much that it won't happen. Now he's all glum because he couldn't do his track weekend (which was like $500) because we have to save it for the house. Almost like he expects me to fund it for him because it's one thing he does that makes him happy. However, right before he was all glum about that, he was going on about how he's going to build a deck on the house, and replace kitchen cabinets, and build a pond with a stream, and put in shelving. I nod but don't say a word. I ask him where is all this money going to be coming from since you are currently negative $160 with the bank until pay day? He nonchalantly says "Well aren't we going to use your $10,000 CD for the house like we talked about"? Well that is now $8000 because you needed $2000 for something and I just took another $1100 out to pay for next months rent so we are down to $6900. Gee, maybe YOU could pay for something? I love how you are making plans wiht MY money!

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