A little advice... please.

Well this is strange for me, not usually one to post in forums but trying to seek solace anywhere I can at the moment. So my girlfriend of 2 and a half years cheated on me this weekend. I knew something was up because she was ignoring my texts all night and the next day too. Finally in the evening around 5 I heard from her. She told me straight away what she had done. She slept at her friends after a party and a lad kissed her while she was on the sofa trying to go to sleep. She admitted to kissing back and then said she pushed him off and that was all that happened. I dont know this guy personally but I found him on facebook and messaged him to find the truth. I was not overly aggressive but certainly made the point I was not impressed. He did have the balls to write back and the story checks out. He said he kissed her and that they were hammered and he did not want to jeopordise our relationship. TOO LATE. She is upset and I do believe she regrets what she has done. Her reasons are that she has felt suffocated in our relationship because we are always together but it was her that wanted it to be like that! I love her so much but she has completely stripped away all the trust I had in her. This is the second girlfriend in a row that has cheated although the previous one never admitted to it. Where do I go from here? Any advice or chat would be helpful right now. x

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