Not sure how to read into this...

Ok. So I have been researching some of the forums. Getting a good Idea on signs for infidelity and such. I read the Married Men's Sex Primer, which is amazing and for any man, married or not, I would recommend it. So Ive noticed some changes in my wife of 13 years as of late. First off probably a month or so ago, she gets mad at me because I didnt want to go dancing, and says to me she wants out. I was really taken aback by this. I get upset and she says to forget she mentioned anything. She is just being stupid. Just early last week she brought it up wanting out again. Im so confused because we go out together all the time. I do give her her space too and she will ocassionally go do her own thing with friends. I always know where she is. Who she is with. I oftentimes will drop her off and pick her up. We carpool in to work together. The first thing I found on here is that people will say OMG she is cheating. I dont think that is the case because of What I explained in the previous paragraph. Also, We keep our electronic equipment open. I have access to her phone. She doesn't lock it. We share a laptop. We know each other's email passwords. She has an ipad that is mostly for her that she gives me full access to. I have never found anything suspicious. We typically text each other throughout the day and we talk on the phone from work every day. Our sex life goes up and down. We usually have sex maybe once a week. If things are going well a few times a week. And it is always great. Getting her to climax multiple times is usually not an issue. However, the last few times we had sex, She has not, which is unusual for us. We have not been on birth control for about 5 years now. We have tried a variety of birth control throughout the years and she had a bad experience with an IUD and that was the last straw. She's the type that experiences some sort of side effect of litterally any medication she takes. After reading the MMSP, I found that I need to turn up the alpha traits, stop letting her run the relationship, etc. So I turn it up, I took control of our relationship and I said, "this is what we are doing" And she seemed to eat it right up. Hmm..progress?? So we go out on a fantastic date this last Friday, and she tells me she is thinking of getting back on birth control. To me that was a red flag. Her explanation was that she wants me to start cumming inside of her I again said she misses climaxing together at the same time. I was very surprised for her to say this. "she says what you think this makes it easier for me to cheat on you" I explain to her things are fine now, and we know the risk we are running at this point. If she gets pregnant, she gets pregnant. She became very upset with me because maybe a year ago we had heated discussion of having a third child and I was very much against it. Now she thinks that I will concede to a 3rd child because of what we are "going through." That was not what I was getting at at all. Again, I was simply getting at that we know the risk and if it happens it happens. Its not like I can freak out. At the end of the night, we did have some good "alpha...screw your brains out doggy style" sex. But again, she did not climax. Then the rest of the entire weekend, she seemed very distant and closed off. We spent a lot of our time on the couch cuddling, but It seemed as soon as the kids were in bed, she'd turn her attention to her laptop and play bejeweled or one those other facebook games for hours. Im right next to her the whole time. Then she calls that god damn dog up and cuddles him to death. I effing HATE that. Always that stupid dog!!! When I'm in the mood, dont call the damn dog on the bed! She barely wanted to kiss, she will hold hands and cuddle all night though. The week started out pretty well when I turned on the Alpha juices. But later on, I dont know. It was an awkward weekend for me. Ive barely slept or ate. I've this anxiety pain in the pit of my stomache for days. What is also confusing thing to me is that she still wants the family time. We are visiting with her family tonight. We are going out of town this weekend to see my family. We have to move in the next few months due to foreclosure and we sit on the laptop together scouting out rental properties. She still talks about our future. We have summer plans with friends for camping a few times. We are planning a cruise with some married friends in March of next year. Also, I believe she has some resentment toward the house issue. She never wanted to buy a house to begin with and all it has done has caused problems. Financially it was a terrible idea, but we could afford it when we bought it. She has also had some personal issues over the last year. family has both moved hundreds of miles away. A close family member has passed away, and she lost her job, but not for long as she started a new one shortly afterward, but she was very close to the people at her old job, and all of this happened in the last year. She will be attending individual counselling later this month, but adamantly states that I am not the problem, and doesnt think we need MC. Sorry for the long read. I'm sure I may have left out crucial details. thoughts? Thanks.

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