Just because it can doesn't mean it should

For those in a simular situation I have sought advice on several forums and I thought I would share what has helped me most. Just because a marriage CAN survive infidelity doesn't mean it always SHOULD and an ability to forgive is not commensurate with an obligation to stay within the bounds of broken vows. I was able to have some very frank and candid exchanges with someone whom was able to really delve into the issues and dynamics that have been on going in my marriage. Between my husbands PA a few yrs back and my recent EA and the surrounding circumstances, I am in a marriage that SHOULD NOT continue. My husband is aware of the emotional affair. I have answered questions as he had presented and left it there, which seems to be in line with most of the advice from the betrayed spouces here (i had a need for much more information about my husbands physical affair). For those of you who are in a marriage that SHOULD survive infidelity, I wish you the best of luck and the greatest of happiness.

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