| Hey everyone, I come here to seek advice on this forum. I've been in a relationship for 3 and a half years and I've devoted myself to my girlfriend. I've had the opportunity to be with multiple girls but I've shoved them aside only for her. She is my first and I thought she would be the only. I've fought to be with her, welcomed her into my life as part of me. I used to be an independent person, always laughing and smiling and letting nothing bother me. I have a good group of friends, I am a popular person, I am also unfortunately a very generous person. I give and don't expect anything in return. I never used to cry and never was so dependent upon anyone else. Since being in a relationship, I've changed from independent to dependent. I guess attachment does that to some people. Me and my girlfriend are a long distance couple mainly because she goes to a University a little over an hour away from mine and she comes home only weekends. She always has dreams of going off into the world without me to pursue her dreams. I always assumed that in my relationship, me and my significant other would venture off into the world together and pursue our dreams jointly and reflect on our experiences. However, this girl is independent, she is willing to leave me for months on end to years just to fulfill her enjoyment. I always keep her in the forefront of my mind and tip of my tongue thinking of only the please her and fulfill her desires along myside. How am I suppost to continue an even more long distance relationship with this girl? This bothers me and I've opened up to her about this and she's pushing me away telling me we need a break. She tells me I'm selfish and calls me a bunch of hurtful names just to erupt my anger. I have a huge anger problem and I try my hardest to put it to the side for her. What did I do wrong? All I want to do is be with her and enjoy life with her. She pushes me away for no reason. Give me advice as I really need it. Should I continue this relationship? | |||
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