My fault again....Don't know how to respond

Husband's work is hit or miss and the bills have skyrocketed. We could lose our home within a couple of months. He finally goes to work and is making 4x what he does on unemployment and I'm thinking we might be able to catch up. This was only a 6 week job but it would help tremendously. I come home from the grocery store on Saturday and he's sitting on the couch....he left the job after only 1 week! He said they wanted him to do work that he usually gets paid more money for so screw them. I'm thinking more like screw us, they'll still pay their bills. Anyway, I told him I couldn't help that it upset me. I didn't totally IGNORE him but was kinda bothered by it for couple of days & not being overly affectionate, etc etc. Anyway, he calls me at work today and tells me "He's tired of being at the bottom of my priorities. I don't care how he feels about anything. If I don't want him around he'll just leave. On and On and On.......I don't ever do what h e wants me to do, I'm more concerned about our kids and the dog" I could go on and on but basically I'm tired of him threatening me. Especially when I'm not the one that did anything wrong. I'm allowed to be upset with his behavior without it being the end of our lives.....Am I wrong? What do I do?

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