How should I be with my ex now ?

I'm damned if I know how I should be with her now. We separated 5mths ago , it'd been a very rough few yrs and I'd not only been an a/h basically , but I also had an ongoing EA with a friend. My W to me had mostly just changed though too and she did nothing about anything I complained about either , this is basically why I wound up the way I did , for me anyway. One night she gave me the sep' speech and also added that she wanted to move out and start seeing this new guy. We split , she's in a house 10mins away with my daughter. We still get along very well though and we also both wanted things 50/50 for my daughter and things between us around her easy , comfortable. I knew she was spending a little bit of time with this guy but to be honest I thought it fizzled out a few mths back Until 3wks ago , I turn up to get my D and here he is . There at the house , sitting outside , with my x . It made me sick. 2 reasons . One she shouldn't have him around my daughter yet , well we've fixed that one and she agreed to keep him away from her for another 12 mths but 2 - of course she's sitting there , with a new guy , a guy that helped wreck what was left of my marriage , knew I was coming . It made me sick to the stomach. On one hand though yes it did make me sick but on the other , I'd also fd up a lot and painfully to her before the split. I just don't know how to be with her now. I want things as good as they can be between us for my daughter , we were still getting along very well - until that morning ! How am I suppose to be with her now though ?

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