Mixed Signals

I've been talking to this guy now for about a month and a half. We get along SO good and we are pretty much the same person, I honestly haven't been this into somebody in a long time.. and he knows that. About 2 weeks ago he left town and ended up posting a picture with a girl he use to talk to but apparently didnt work out with, saying that he was talking to her again... When confronted he said he simply "Didn't know how to tell me, and it was completely unexpected". So we discussed it and agreed we would just be friends, blah blah.. so on. He was very sincere in his apologies about it and all, but I am so confused now. He stayed with me two nights last week (did not have sex) just cuddled, laughed, and I fell asleep on his chest.. and he kissed me goodnight/goodmorning/goodbye, and being the person I am I didn't ask him anything about her, I figured if he was with me then there was a reason for it. He acted as he did from the beginning. I let him know this weekend that I was "Confused" his response was, that he wanted to be my friend but was talking to someone. So I laid down the line, explaining that he couldnt act the way he does to me or stay at my house yadda yadda if he was just wanting to be friends, that I couldn't handle it and it wasn't right to her but if he changed his mind that I would give him the time to do so. He agreed, just friends and apologized for misleading me those nights. Last night he called and wanted to come over so I let him, and again things were no different... and we still did not have sex so I know that it is nothing like that. I just dont get it, I am so confused.. or maybe he is the confused one. I'm not sure if they are still talking or what the hell is going on, because again I didn't ask, I dont wanna be pushy and bring it all up again.. but something has to give.. What do you guys think he's doing? Does he simply not know what he wants? or the fact that she lives an hour away he's just lonely? Any insight to this AT ALL is much appreciated.

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