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Am I being taken for granted? What can I do?

When me and my boyfriend first got together, I had come out of an abusive relationship where the guy didn't care about me, was psychologically abusive and ruined my self esteem.
I met someone new who was my knight in shining armour, he paid for meals for me, took me out places for drinks with his friends and him, showed me off...and although I was scared to enter a new relationship after being hurt, he said he'd 'look after me' as I was important and special and beautiful and all the things guys say :P hehe

Throughout the second month of being together he started to stop doing these things, it seems like the more I fell in love with him-the cute, cheeky, intelligent guy, the more he stopped acting like this. He seems now to not bother if I'm there or not. When I go round he plays video games from the moment I arrive to when I leave. I don't mind him doing it for a few hours but he only stops if he wants sex, food or sleep.
I'd do anything for him, just little things to make him happy. I'm going skiing next week and I said how much I'd miss him...he said he wouldn't really be that bothered.

I didn't mind that much as he's a laid back guy, but he's stopped texting as much, doesn't call me, never takes me out or does anything sweet and it's only been 2 months?
When I asked him about it he said...'I can't get excited about yugioh and video games anymore because you don't love them.' (note-I asked him to teach me so we could do something fun together)
'I only did those romantic things at the start because I wanted to pull out all the stops to get you...I can't do that all the time now'
He even said he wanted us to get a flat and get married :/

He didn't even text good morning this week :/ We still have things in common, it's just that he seems to think we don't and when I list all the things we have in common he finds things we don't :L
What's gone wrong?
I fell head over heels as I thought he would look after me and not hurt me...what do I do?

Advice please anyone :( xxx




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