After some thinking, I would like to offer some real life advice to the army of sexless husbands here.
For whatever reason (besides to most extreme cases) women go through the motions and our SD's drop off. Be it kids, work, endless responsibility, constantly emptying our cups to fill our husbands, resentment can build bitterness ect ect. So I'm going give some general tips on how my husband got laid during my off period.
"the longer then 5 minute back rub" - technique is a simple one if your wife is a side or tummy sleeper it's easier cause you can just start it without asking.
Begin back rub, deep muscle massage, shoulders and lower back (especially appreciated if your wife has a toddler she carries all day) focus on back and shoulders, do NOT go near breasts. After paying close attention to back, move lower for foot and calves. DO NOT GO PAST KNEES.
Make her feet tingle in contentment, resume back massage if your wife is physically relaxed IE either leaning into you or slumps shoulders and dead weight on bed this is good.
Make your move, slowly, instead of rubbing, caress, kisses down the spine and across the shoulders, or wife personal preference, by this time wife will suspect, put hand in either back of her neck or in her hair be forceful but gentle, resume kissing of neck and shoulders. If wife receptive move forward.
The point of this is to let your wife know its about the massage not the love making, it's not even about the time invested in the foreplay, but in the time before the foreplay.
So I know other ladies have some lessons that ummm melt their defenses.
Also side note, reverse thinking works, my close male friend told me that he once told his wife that she probably couldn't even get him hard anymore she was so out of practice, needless to say she
f ucked him silly, and he wore a smirk for two days.
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For whatever reason (besides to most extreme cases) women go through the motions and our SD's drop off. Be it kids, work, endless responsibility, constantly emptying our cups to fill our husbands, resentment can build bitterness ect ect. So I'm going give some general tips on how my husband got laid during my off period.
"the longer then 5 minute back rub" - technique is a simple one if your wife is a side or tummy sleeper it's easier cause you can just start it without asking.
Begin back rub, deep muscle massage, shoulders and lower back (especially appreciated if your wife has a toddler she carries all day) focus on back and shoulders, do NOT go near breasts. After paying close attention to back, move lower for foot and calves. DO NOT GO PAST KNEES.
Make her feet tingle in contentment, resume back massage if your wife is physically relaxed IE either leaning into you or slumps shoulders and dead weight on bed this is good.
Make your move, slowly, instead of rubbing, caress, kisses down the spine and across the shoulders, or wife personal preference, by this time wife will suspect, put hand in either back of her neck or in her hair be forceful but gentle, resume kissing of neck and shoulders. If wife receptive move forward.
The point of this is to let your wife know its about the massage not the love making, it's not even about the time invested in the foreplay, but in the time before the foreplay.
So I know other ladies have some lessons that ummm melt their defenses.
Also side note, reverse thinking works, my close male friend told me that he once told his wife that she probably couldn't even get him hard anymore she was so out of practice, needless to say she
f ucked him silly, and he wore a smirk for two days.
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