Ok, so my husband and I have been married for 2 years now. We have a great marriage, spend time together, have passion etc. We really do not have big issues in our marriage besides the fact I am VERY negative and insecure about his past. Soon after we met, he eventually told me about his past....he cheated on an ex wife 3 times. He expressed his reasons as to why he cheated, and that was that. I honestly felt secure. Since we have been married, its like a switch turned on and I'm constantly insecure thinking he will do it to me. He gives me NO reason to think like this, other than the fact I think about his past. He doesn't lack in giving me attention or anything. I just feel helpless because I can't let go of negative thoughts. I feel like I can't trust him completely because if I do, then that's when I will get extremely hurt for letting my guard down. I just want to learn how to let go of the past, and what he has told me, and just to be secure knowing this is NEW life we have together. Does anyone know what I'm going through, and do you have advice? I don't want to let this negativity cause a wedge between my husband and I. Thanks in advance...
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