I've been married to my wife for 8 years to the day. We have two children ages 7 and 4. My wife had an emotional affair three years ago. When I found out she raged at me for spying on her. She denied and lied and tried to get rid of all the evidence. Even when confronted with the phone bill. I tried to force her to end it, but it really only ended because he stopped talking to her. I forgave her and stayed with her because I didn't want to put the kids through divorce and didn't have hard evidence of physical adultery.(Divorce is complicated in MD) I tried to repair the marriage, and it hasn't been perfect, but I've done the best I can.
Recently she started a new job and I found out that she is already having an inappropriate relationship with someone at work. It was shocking to me that immediately she started coming home from work talking about how all her married coworkers were sleeping around with people at work. Her behavior changed, she started wearing new perfume and carrying it with her so she could douse herself with it at work. She started going to get spray tanned all the time. I started looking and found enough incriminating texts/facebook messages to prove that something is going on. Again she denies it and is enraged that I've been "spying" on her. We had a big fight tonight and I'm not sure I could repair the rift even if I wanted to. I feel awful about the thought of putting my kids through divorce. There's still even a part of me that wants to forgive and stay with her but I don't think I can ever trust her again.
Is there anybody here that has been through the separation/divorce process is MD?
Recently she started a new job and I found out that she is already having an inappropriate relationship with someone at work. It was shocking to me that immediately she started coming home from work talking about how all her married coworkers were sleeping around with people at work. Her behavior changed, she started wearing new perfume and carrying it with her so she could douse herself with it at work. She started going to get spray tanned all the time. I started looking and found enough incriminating texts/facebook messages to prove that something is going on. Again she denies it and is enraged that I've been "spying" on her. We had a big fight tonight and I'm not sure I could repair the rift even if I wanted to. I feel awful about the thought of putting my kids through divorce. There's still even a part of me that wants to forgive and stay with her but I don't think I can ever trust her again.
Is there anybody here that has been through the separation/divorce process is MD?
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