I've been with my boyfriend for coming up to two years now - he's quite an unusual character, the type that gets on far better with girls than guys in general (he does have three best guy friends but most of his friends are female). Over time I've gotten my head around the fact that he has so many female friends (all my exes were guy's guys).
To celebrate his birthday he's gone on a roadtrip to America with his 3 best guy friends - they're doing a few different cities including a visit to Chicago where he wanted to see his friend (female) that he befriended 5 years ago on a plane and has stayed in touch with ever since (this doesn't bother me - he picks up friends everywhere its just how he is). What he doesn't realise is that before we started going out (when we were just friends) he once sent me photos of her while we were comparing women (I'm bisexual) and mentioned something about her having great tits, so he's obviously seen photos - fair enough he was single at the time etc. He never mentioned her name or that she was his american friend - I've just deduced over the years that she is, thanks to facebook ha. I was under the impression that he and all his friends were going to visit her, but found out the day he left (from him) that he is flying there alone, staying 2 nights then flying home alone while his fr iends fly home via a different city. I went a bit quiet when I found out and later told him I was surprised at him not telling me and that I'd deduced who she was and told him he'd previously sent me photos of her in the past so they've obviously been very flirty at some point before my time. He apologised and reassured me that they are just friends, she has a long term boyfriend too who he will be meeting when he's out there.
I feel a bit weirded out that he never told me a) he's going there alone now/flying home alone and b) has never really told me much about his 'american friend', only the story of how they met. I get that times change and feelings change and what not and I don't doubt that he loves me, but I still feel a bit uneasy about it all. Am I overreacting?
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