Long story short, I am 21-year-old girl and never had a proper relationship. I fooled around with a couple boys before but it never led to something serious. Honestly I'm not hot but I don't think I'm ugly either. I'm just average weight and slightly above average height. I do look pale without makeup so I make sure to put it on every day. I shower and wear deodorant daily although my sense of smell is too sensitive to wear perfume. I dress fashionably with good quality pieces, but I'm not girly at all (bordering on being a tomboy) so I seldom wear skirts, dresses or even nail polish.
I keep thinking about possible reasons why boys aren't interested in me but cannot find a solution.
-The fact that I'm not girly - okay, that may be why, but I can't help it. Sometimes I motivate myself to wear skirts more often and such, but I can't keep it up. It's just not me. Besides there are girls who are a lot more tomboy-ish than me and yet have more success in the relationship front.
-My inexperience (and awkwardness as a result) - I've never been in a long-term relationship. In high school I wasn't girlfriend material because I was too depressed to take care of my appearance. On the very rare occasions I was hit on, I would have no clue until my friends pointed it out to me. In an effort to overcome this I'm trying to be more approachable, but I fear I may be taking it too far and giving myself away too easily. Why is it so hard to strike a balance? :S
-My personality - I'm not a bitch :( I have friends who care for me and many of them are opposite sex too, we just never considered a relationship.
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So can I ask the possible reasons why a guy wouldn't want to date a girl like me? Apart from obvious reasons like unattractiveness or personality clashes?
Put the internet to work for you.
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