So I hear all the time that men only want sex, men will have sex with anything that's willing, etc. Also, women are the ones that are all about love and feelings. They need an emotional connection to have sex. This is often heard in sexless marriage advice, "Your wife needs top feel an emotional bond to you to want sex with you."
I know these are generalizations, but it's said often enough there should be some truth to it.
But it seems in real life things often play out differently, or maybe I'm overthinking. I've heard women IRL and on this board say "it was just sex", "it meant nothing", and other things along those lines.
So, I'm thinking, what's the story here? Do women NEED an emotional connection? Can they have JUST sex? Is the coventional wisdom so far off the mark? And why does that wife that's not having sex with her husband need an emotional connection, but when she was single and going to clubs she could have "just sex' with whoever she felt like?
I know these are generalizations, but it's said often enough there should be some truth to it.
But it seems in real life things often play out differently, or maybe I'm overthinking. I've heard women IRL and on this board say "it was just sex", "it meant nothing", and other things along those lines.
So, I'm thinking, what's the story here? Do women NEED an emotional connection? Can they have JUST sex? Is the coventional wisdom so far off the mark? And why does that wife that's not having sex with her husband need an emotional connection, but when she was single and going to clubs she could have "just sex' with whoever she felt like?
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