Hey guys thanks for sparing the time to read this.
Basically i'd consider myself an introvert , I only truly accepted this a year or two back . Before then I would fake being sociable and enjoying the company of some truly mind numbing people because I assumed thats what everyone did and didn't want to be percieved as a loner - probably one of the most stigmatized groups in society.
After a year I broke off alot of fake friendships and boy did I feel relieved , I do have friends now don't get me wrong but I'm not always with them and no longer feel wierd to do things on my own , it feels awesome.
I've done things like gone cinema on my own , go for walks on my own , sometimes I just sit in the park on my own and I regularly study in the coffee shop on my own and I see nothing wrong with it . I find it irritating that people always assume you have to do everything with someone
"Im just going to the coffee shop to get some work done"
"Who with"
I find the very fact this question has to be asked quite pathetic tbh , I was born alone , I shall die alone , I **** alone and I piss alone . I do alot of ****ing things alone and there is nothing with wrong with that.
Anyway I just had to get that off my chest.
Is the fact that I'm not always with my friends something a girl might perceive as weird
and a potential bad signal ?
I have a crush on this girl and I think theres chemistry there but outside of lessons she is always with this group whereas im almost always alone studying here , off walking there etc (im not purposelly avoiding anyone its just my friends don't share my timetable) . Do you think she is going to think im a loner ?
I know for some people having a boyfriend who has a large social circle is a must and actually an attractive trait , quite wierd imo but yh.
Also given that im 18 - an age where id say the majority of teens who fall under this age are sheep incapable of making their own decisions and go along with shallow and stupid ways of thinking . - is this going to be more significant ?
I think adults are much more accepting of this but teens are just stupid . ( I know alot of people are probably going to say no on here , but the average person on TSR is probably a bit more intelligent then the average person I encounter tbh)
Put the internet to work for you.
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