about 18 days ago my wife blind sided me and told me she wanted a divorce. we have been married for almost 3 yrs.
it was a "its not u its me" thing. she loves me but is not in love with me.
it blind sided me i told her i would do anything consoling etc. to save it. she still insisted she was leaving. after she told me she was leaving she was in a great mood very very happy. i was sad and bawled. the next morning i begged her to stay as i cried. she said no.
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after i got my self together i headed to work as i left she was taking all of her pictures of her family off the fridge.
as i pulled into work she text me to come back reluctantly i went back. she told me we could wrk it out and she wasnt goin to leave.
i was pissed when she said that. she broke my heart so bad i did not know if i wanted her back after that.
So here we are 18 days later i want to get over what she did to me but part of me just cant. its not fair she can pull out the d-card and then take it back as if nothing happened.
is our marriage doomed to be both of us faking it..?
The big problem now is she is talking about tryin to get pregnant soon (which was our goal this spring) and my fear is once i let my guard down she will do it again at some point in our lives and i would prefer we do not have a kid if we are doomed for divorce
any advice is much appreciated. we also barely have a sex life unless we are trying to have a baby but its kinda always been like that.
i do not know what to dooooooo:(
it was a "its not u its me" thing. she loves me but is not in love with me.
it blind sided me i told her i would do anything consoling etc. to save it. she still insisted she was leaving. after she told me she was leaving she was in a great mood very very happy. i was sad and bawled. the next morning i begged her to stay as i cried. she said no.
\
after i got my self together i headed to work as i left she was taking all of her pictures of her family off the fridge.
as i pulled into work she text me to come back reluctantly i went back. she told me we could wrk it out and she wasnt goin to leave.
i was pissed when she said that. she broke my heart so bad i did not know if i wanted her back after that.
So here we are 18 days later i want to get over what she did to me but part of me just cant. its not fair she can pull out the d-card and then take it back as if nothing happened.
is our marriage doomed to be both of us faking it..?
The big problem now is she is talking about tryin to get pregnant soon (which was our goal this spring) and my fear is once i let my guard down she will do it again at some point in our lives and i would prefer we do not have a kid if we are doomed for divorce
any advice is much appreciated. we also barely have a sex life unless we are trying to have a baby but its kinda always been like that.
i do not know what to dooooooo:(
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