So, theres this girl im friends with (im also a girl) and we have been very close friends since the beginning of secondary, we are just about to leave now. She has this boyfriend and been with him for a while but he is not a nice character but she is obsessed with him. the reason we fell out was because she was not a good friend for me, we would go out and every time be rushing back to see him, he didnt like her seeing me (i am not a bad influence or anything like that) so i finally had enough of this behaviour and her not doing anything to stop him or standing up for herself i was a very good friend to her constantly listening to her about all her problems with him and offering advice which she never ever followed. she sees him every night for hours despite school work they do it together and have had some small amount of plagarism.
Now, she was my best friend at one point but she hasnt been for a while and when i stopped talking to her i thought that was it. but i have been considering whether or not i should make up with her, i dont have any other close friends who i can talk to about things and neither does she apart from him. i want to suggest to her that we do become best friends and start doing stuff and ditching her boyfriend a bit and making time for me. but i am scared because i fear rejection from her and will she actually be able to change and distance herself from him for a while? i am unsure about this and so atm i am too scared to make the first move. on the other hand i feel should i even make the first move, because if she cared so much she would contact me. so what do i do? talk to her and resolve the issue, continue not being friends (we leave school soon anyway) or wait for her to come to me and then forgive her.
any advice would be grateful, i am very lonely atm so i am thinking about these options a lot and wishing she would make the first move, im doubtful she will, sorry for long post.
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