This guy is confident, funny with others around me he becomes very different with me quiet when he's not a quiet guy he's very confident , extroverted .We're around the same age I'm younger 25 im 20 . I've had three trainers so far he's the 3rd. I still use the 2nd I use the 2nd for different workouts.
I've only had about 3/4 sessions with him so far. At the start when I first had him was more formal also in his emails, now he seems a lot more extra friendly more personal sounding and comfortable and then in person we're he's quieter maybe nervous? My other trainers I've had are a lot more formal in the emails with me they are around the same age as him and we talk during the workouts.
He's also completely changed his ways how he acts towards with me an in person he's quieter when he's usually confident around everyone else jokey or chatty. At the last session at the start he was just coming in was joking with the receptionist woman and talkative then when he saw me he stopped an he changed to being quiet when he was with me. He's more touchy with me my other trainers never touches me just explain. During lunge he touched my leg or sometimes if I was straight he'd touch my back. The other day I arrived to the gym early he was near the reception he was talking to people he stopped watching me walk in as it went silent. I've seen the way he interacts with others he's different more confident an the way he replies from his facebook training page and that he's less personal. I've seen him with other clients too.
The emails are like this (shortened) . At the start he was very formal an no smileys etc less personal.
Me: Yeah I could probably do Monday then if you have a time after 3pm.
PT : As it stands I have 4pm Monday, as well as 4pm & 5pm Wednesday. Whichever suits you best is fine with me :)
Me: I do a Friday afternoon instead just seen in the newsletter say 2 or 3pm?
Pt:Lets go with 3pm in that case : )
Me: I don't have a specific time in mind probably the Tuesday anytime after 12. What times do you have?
PT: Will get back to you when my schedule becomes a little clearer :)
Me : Okay thats grand :)
Me: Hi thats ok yeah that times good, would you be able to do a hiit session for this week?
PT: Sure thing, see you Tuesday :)
Me: Thanks see you then : )
Why is he confident/jokey around everyone else an with me he's different quiet? but in the emails he's extra friendly or comfortable? Is he attracted to me? or what?
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