Okay, so she's my first girlfriend, we're both around 20. Apparently she's liked me for a long time as we've been friends for quite a while, but just before we started going out she had feelings for another guy too. Anyhow, since she was my friend, just before we started going out I asked her for advice as I fancied another girl, and she wanted to trade advice with me for this guy that she had feelings for. At this point she also had told me she had slept with him, and really really likes him. Now though, a few months down the line, we ended up going out with each other, she asked me out after hanging out with me a lot.
All of this doesn't bother me. It's the fact that I really think she still has feelings for him, maybe even more than me. We went out as a group of friends the other night; me and my girlfriend, this guy and a female friend. My girlfriend was quite obviously showing more interest in this guy, like 'awwwing' at everything he said, touched his back affectionately when he was going through the door into our next venue, laughing at him, agreeing with at everything he says. She was just generally more conscious of him and what he said that she was of me, and she was even a bit dismissive of what I said. It made me feel really quite uncomfortable. Anyway, after we parted ways, and I head home with my girlfriend, all of a sudden i'm her number one guy again, but that doesn't make it right. She was not like she is when i'm alone with her...
Baring in mind, this was all on top of a number of things, she was staring at him all night clearly as she was right next to me, so whenever I looked at her, she was just looking at him when she talked. What should I do, and does this mean anything? am I being too insecure?
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