to work or not to work that is the question...

Hello! New here and the reason i joined is i have only been married for four months. Since then we have run into a few financial snags. We have risen over those hurtles but are still not caught up on bills. Recently she keeps asking if she can leave early, or go in late or take the day off in general. This drives me nuts i work 40 hours like she does but i also stay late twice a month and clean the whole office ( including scrubbing the toilets ) I don't think she should be able to take extra time off just because its available to her through her company considering we still are behind on more then one bill. In the past she has lost her job due to medical/mental reasons. I live in such fear that will happen again i cant tell if i am over reacting because she has been asking to leave again and complains she doesn't feel good. Not sure what to say or do....HELP!:scratchhead:

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