How do I initiate sex?

My husband and I have been married for 3 years. Before we married I never initiated sex and he seemed to be fine with that. After we married things changed so drastically. He became less interested in sex and I thought maybe he wasn't attracted to me. After having a long and open conversation about what we both want, the other day - my husband admitted to me that the reason for his lack of interest in sex is because I never initiate. He tells me that he feels I'm not attracted to him and he says he feels he doesn't have much self-esteem or confidence because of this. On the other hand I feel exactly the same because he doesn't initiate much either. Its a difficult situation because we are both feeling bad about ourselves because of what the other person isn't doing. We both confirmed that we are still attracted to each other and want to be make love more often. I understand my husbands frustration with my not initiating sex. For some reason though , I have such a big fear to initiate sex because I'm scared he says no or I'm scared I look stupid or silly. I know that doesn't really make sense because he's my husband and I doubt he'll ever say no and if he does then its okay. We don't always feel like it all the time. So basically I need to just gather my courage and try. My question is - how do I initiate? Any ideas and tips for someone who is shy and feeling a little awkward? Thanks... Posted via Mobile Device

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