| HI everyone I am new here. I am 27 and I have been married to my husband for 2 years now, we have been together a total of 5. Our marriage is O.K , we both have been faithful to each other since the very beginning. He is a responsible man and a good provider. We unfortunately have intercourse around 10x a year, therefore our marriage is classified as a sexless one. Words cannot express the frustration, hurt and depression this has brought upon me. I personally do not understand why we are going through this. I am an attractive lady , 5'5 118lbs, I make my health a priority and care for my diet, and work out. I get a lot of attention from the opposite sex which is a good sign in my book but it doesn't explain why the man I married is ok with NOT having sex with me. I don't have a lot of sexual experience I met him when I was 22, he was 34. Yes he is 12 years older than me, perhaps this is the problem. He had his fun when he was my age now his libido has declined. I am suffering for it. I am angry as I am writing this. I do not want to get a divorce because our daughter needs both her parents to raise her. I would NEVER EVER cheat, because I am a very loyal person , so therefore I am trapped. As my youth passes by I will never get to experience intimacy or sexual bliss with the man I married. I know that if things continue like this I am going to need counseling and perhaps anti-depressants. Today I joined this website for comforting and with hopes to meet other spouses in my situation. How they have coped and if perhaps there is light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for reading, and please any input, advice or words would be so highly appreciated, because my heart is hurting so much right now. | |||
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