| I'm in my second year at uni and from November I have been getting involved with a charity fashion show as a model. Through this show, there was socials. The first social no-one knew anyone so it really broke the ice and was fun. One of the guys I met there, I was really attracted to and we had a dance together at the end of the night. It was just in a "friend" kind of way, nothing suggesting anything more (considering I had only just met him!). This was around November time. He then added me on facebook and has "liked" some of my profile pics. Meetings and rehearsals started for the show in January and this is when he messaged me quite casually (but he hasn't really spoke to me on facebook before) and asked if we could meet up for a catch up. I just said I couldn't because of having too much work but suggested it another time. After I had done all my work etc, he messaged again so I said yeah and he invited me over to his. It was nice, he got a bottle of wine and put some music and just asked me things trying to get to know me better. He did compliment me saying I was beautiful and we danced a bit , but it was a bit awkward in a funny way. Then I left, and he walked me back etc. The week after, we did this again (minus the wine lol) and just had a nice chat it was quite funny and made me like him a bit.. he said he was nervous around me, which I didn't know if it was true. He did seem a bit shy but he was talkative. Anyway, the other night there was a social at a club. I seen him there and he complimented my dress. Then throughout the night he did look at me and talk to me but he seemed pretty distant and was dancing and kissing other girls. I'm not going to lie, this made me the slightest bit jealous because I thought he liked me? Then when I was leaving I just said bye and he said it back then he grabbed my hand and gave me a tight-sqeezy hug and asked me for a kiss, I didn't say no.. I nearly did it but I just gave him another hug instead and he said he will see me soon. Then I left and he went back to dance with the girl he had been kissing. He is an international student from USA and is only here till like june time. So I can understand that is he is having fun and seeing what he can get. But I'm the kind of girl who over thinks etc and this has made me feel a bit like I should be wary of him. I know I'm not in a relationship with him so it is none of my business what he does with other girls.. but does he like me or am I getting mixed messages? I think if anything did happen between us it would be very casual but due to my thoughts about him after being with other girls, it's kinda making me think maybe I shouldn't meet up with him again. Then again, part of me is thinking, so what if he kissed another girl or whatever… I don't own him, he is single and if I like him and know I can't get serious with him, I might as well just have fun with him and keep things casual as he'd be back in USA before I know… that's if it gets that far. Any advice? | |||
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