I was on another site earlier today and read the updates from a couple of BH's trying to R with their WW's who are having a problem with frequency and passion in their intimate relationships post-A.
They keep getting hit with the excuse that their WW's just aren't sexual people and this is who they are.
There are a couple of WW's on the Wayward board over there that have said the same thing...."I'm just not a sexual person".
Yet all of these women, who supposedly are not very sexual, had sexual A's with their POSOM's.
The guys are frustrated, and honestly I couldn't think of what advice I would give them.
If I were in their shoes, dealing with a WW who had a PA but was now telling me she doesn't really need or care for sex, and that's why she didn't want it much or lacked passion, I think I would be so enraged I would consider immediately filing for D (that's the only advice I could think of for these guys, but since it doesn't help them with their desire to R, I refrained from posting)
All I can imagine saying to a WW who told me that is:
"You're not sexual?.....Then WTF am I having to deal with this sh*t for?
If you're not a sexual person why in the h*ll were you even off banging this POS?"
I don't think I could deal with that crap.
So my question is, did any of you guys have to deal with your WW claiming or saying this after D-Day?
How did you deal with it?
I really had not a clue on what to post to these guys.
They keep getting hit with the excuse that their WW's just aren't sexual people and this is who they are.
There are a couple of WW's on the Wayward board over there that have said the same thing...."I'm just not a sexual person".
Yet all of these women, who supposedly are not very sexual, had sexual A's with their POSOM's.
The guys are frustrated, and honestly I couldn't think of what advice I would give them.
If I were in their shoes, dealing with a WW who had a PA but was now telling me she doesn't really need or care for sex, and that's why she didn't want it much or lacked passion, I think I would be so enraged I would consider immediately filing for D (that's the only advice I could think of for these guys, but since it doesn't help them with their desire to R, I refrained from posting)
All I can imagine saying to a WW who told me that is:
"You're not sexual?.....Then WTF am I having to deal with this sh*t for?
If you're not a sexual person why in the h*ll were you even off banging this POS?"
I don't think I could deal with that crap.
So my question is, did any of you guys have to deal with your WW claiming or saying this after D-Day?
How did you deal with it?
I really had not a clue on what to post to these guys.
Put the internet to work for you.
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