I have been on several dates with a very nice woman and we seem to click fairly well. She has a lot of nice qualities that I would want in a partner - cute, kind, generous, smart, etc. But I'm worried about one thing.
I'm not CRAZY about her.
I was so crazy about my ex girlfriend. Granted...she was kind of crazy. The relationship lasted for about a year but boy was I hot for her in so many ways, especially physically. And while I'm physically attracted to this new girl, it's just not on the same level.
And for what it's worth - I've dated a lot of women. And I had maybe 1-2 that I was interested in out of so many.
I'm really torn as to how to proceed. We've had a few very good dates, shared our (very personal) past experiences, had sex. All great things. Perhaps this is a slow burn for me? Maybe I'm just extra guarded from being hurt in the past? Or maybe I need to move on? It's so hard because I know she's really into me and even at this brief stage I know it would hurt her tremendously. I also don't want to give up too soon because maybe these feelings will develop with time? But then if they don't...the hurt will be even worse! I'm so conflicted. Please give me some advice.
I'm not CRAZY about her.
I was so crazy about my ex girlfriend. Granted...she was kind of crazy. The relationship lasted for about a year but boy was I hot for her in so many ways, especially physically. And while I'm physically attracted to this new girl, it's just not on the same level.
And for what it's worth - I've dated a lot of women. And I had maybe 1-2 that I was interested in out of so many.
I'm really torn as to how to proceed. We've had a few very good dates, shared our (very personal) past experiences, had sex. All great things. Perhaps this is a slow burn for me? Maybe I'm just extra guarded from being hurt in the past? Or maybe I need to move on? It's so hard because I know she's really into me and even at this brief stage I know it would hurt her tremendously. I also don't want to give up too soon because maybe these feelings will develop with time? But then if they don't...the hurt will be even worse! I'm so conflicted. Please give me some advice.
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